Wedding

This weekend is my younger brother in law's wedding. Somehow, I feel we are are even more particular and fussy than for my own wedding. The date was selected by a feng shui master, based on every one's birth dates. Wow! A mean feat! From the groom's family, we have 10 of us. From the bride's side, she has 8. So it must have been difficult to have dates that suit us fine.
Starting from this month, We were all excited by the wedding as the groom is the youngest in the family. So it will be quite another while before we have another wedding in our household again. The house had been under going renovations for a while, getting ready for the big day and of cause for the couple's new nuptials room. The wedding photos album being shots, wedding dinner's guests list to be complied and confirmed and to reconfirmed again.
Alas. Sad to say most Singaporeans are still very 'blur' or 'act blur' when it comes to wedding dinner. The invites will state the attire to be smart casual, formal etc. You can trust Singaporeans to come as they deem 'apporiately dressed'.' You will always see them in their 'market best' Many a time, I have been horrified by the way Singaporeans dressed for the occasions. Hmm..... should we blame our weather? I do think that our climates plays a part in the way we dress. I mean, look at how flip flops is our favourite footwear? But honestly hot weather or not, we can always look our best. We should. Afterall, Singaporeans are priding ourselves on how well travelled or well read we are, so YES! WE CAN!!!
And we can and should improve on our timing. The time on the invites would stated " To be seated by 8pm" Well, You can always count on some guests making their grand entrance at 8.30pm. Hmm.... leaves alot to be desired